“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.”
— Anne Lamott

There’s a moment in every woman’s life when bubble baths, scented candles, and digital detoxes no longer feel like enough. They may quiet the noise for a moment, but true inner peace – the kind that doesn’t vanish the second you check your inbox – takes more than self-care Sundays. It requires a shift. In both your mindset and your nutrition.

If you’ve been feeling the persistent hum of anxiety, overwhelm, or just plain burnout, you’re not alone. The modern world asks a lot of us, and sometimes, showing up for your life means showing up for your body and mind in deeper, more nourishing ways. That’s where small, consistent rituals come in – not to fix you, but to support you.

And yes, one of those rituals might be looking into smarter ways to supplement your health.

Let’s talk about what it really means to go beyond self-care.

1. Redefine What Nourishment Means to You

Nutrition isn’t about calorie counting or green juice fads. At its core, it’s a daily relationship with how you feed your body and mind. Renowned food writer Michael Pollan said it best: “Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.” But even that wisdom needs context.

Ask yourself:

    • How does your food make you feel?
    • Do you slow down when you eat?
    • Do you notice how certain meals affect your focus, mood, or sleep?

Real nourishment means listening. It means noticing what foods energize you versus what leaves you foggy and fatigued. It also means creating space for rituals around food — not just shoveling down breakfast in the car, but maybe starting the day with warm lemon water or a breakfast that includes healthy fats and protein to stabilize your mood.

2. Use Nutrition to Soothe, Not Stress

One of the most under-discussed aspects of nutrition is its impact on the nervous system. For women juggling a thousand roles, nervous system regulation is everything. This is where minerals like magnesium play a huge role — they support everything from muscle function to stress resilience.

According to Dr. Mark Hyman, “Magnesium is the relaxation mineral.” It’s involved in over 300 biochemical reactions in the body, including those that help us unwind and recharge.

This is where you can quietly introduce tools into your life without shouting about them. A daily magnesium supplement, like those from Nutrition Geeks, can become a simple, stress-soothing ritual.

But this isn’t about pushing pills. It’s about recognizing your body as a complex, beautiful system that needs a little help sometimes – and giving it that help unapologetically.

3. Make Mindset Shifts That Stick

We’ve all heard about “positive thinking.” But beyond clichés, what does that look like day-to-day?

Inner peace is often less about what’s happening around you and more about the stories you tell yourself. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) pioneer Aaron Beck emphasized how powerful our thoughts are in shaping our feelings.

Here’s a simple shift you can practice:

    • From: “I never have enough time.”
    • To: “I choose how I spend my time.”

Or:

    • From: “I’m terrible at this.”
    • To: “I’m learning and getting better.”

These subtle changes retrain your brain to feel more capable and in control. You’re not ignoring problems; you’re choosing not to narrate them in a way that steals your peace.

4. Build a Routine That Holds You (Not One You Have to Hold Up)

A sustainable routine isn’t a rigid list of rules; it’s a gentle rhythm that meets you where you are. Think: a nourishing breakfast, a midday walk, a wind-down routine that signals to your body it’s safe to rest.

Neuroscientist Dr. Andrew Huberman speaks often about the body’s circadian rhythm (your internal clock). When you eat, move, and sleep at roughly the same times each day, your body begins to work with you instead of against you.

So instead of starting from perfection, start from a pattern:

    • Try anchoring your day with three meals at regular intervals.
    • Light a candle before journaling at night to signal “time to unwind.”
    • Take a deep breath when switching tasks; just five seconds of pause can reset your nervous system.

These aren’t big changes, but their impact compounds over time.

5. Remember That Peace Isn’t a Destination – It’s a Practice

We often wait for things to calm down “out there” before we allow ourselves peace “in here.” But as Debra herself writes, falling in love with your life is about embracing the day-to-day – not waiting for the perfect moment.

That means choosing to see nutrition not as a to-do list, but as an act of respect.

It means embracing mindset work not as a project to fix yourself, but as a path to remembering who you already are.

And it means letting go of the idea that inner peace is a goal, and embracing it as a gentle, daily recommitment.

As Vietnamese monk Thich Nhat Hanh once said, “Peace is every step.” Even your next meal. Even this breath.

In Closing

Going beyond self-care isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing less, more intentionally. Choosing to nourish your body with food and supplements that support your well-being. Choosing thoughts that create more space, not more stress. And above all, choosing yourself – over and over again..

Because you deserve to feel at home in your own life. Not just someday — but now.


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