I often mention meditation here and that’s because I’m a big believer that meditation can be a tool in the path to loving your life. It’s the way I check in on the core of myself, because in constantly trying to keep the brain occupied, we can fail to truly listen...
Imagine that you are Jane. Imagine the jungle of life is a literal jungle. You admit that you have a pretty good life. You have a lovely tree house and you love Tarzan. But you’ve come to realize that you want to take control over the direction of your life. ...
We sat across the table from each other, sharing hot cups of coffee and pieces of a decadent chocolate cake I had made earlier in the week. One of my closest friends had come over to catch up. We talked of love and fear and laughter and home and the daily joys and...
If there is a feeling I know intimately, it’s fear. As a child, I was afraid of the dark and slept with my closet light on. I closed the closet door, of course, because the open space and shadows coming from the closet were scary, too. A tiny sliver of light, however,...
Tell me, darling. What are you afraid of? For many people the obvious answers would be spiders, snakes and dark alleys. Let’s face it: these are things that we can avoid in most cases. In fact, we often make jokes about these types of fears because we see...
Why, when we are on path to something that we deeply desire, do we get in our own way? Why, when we are making real progress towards our goals do we engage in self-sabotage? What is the deal? You know what I mean: We set a goal to lose weight or get in shape. We eat...
My first golf coach, Paul, taught me a heck of a lot more than just golf. In fact, I learned about life from my golf coach. Applying these lessons allows me to create the kind of life that feels loving and nourishing. During my career as a consultant, I was often...